Getting a friend is certainly very difficult. Friends are not the same as friends. Not all the friends we know will become friends. There are important criteria if you want to be a friend. Therefore, we need to know the characteristics of people who can be used as friends who can accept us for who we are.
Here are 4 characteristics of people who can be used as friends.
We must first see the person’s concern before deciding on him as a friend. One of them must care for his friend. One thing for sure is to be willing to see the trouble or distress of his own friend or care.
A caring person proves he really appreciates his friend and wants to be someone who is always there when his friend has problems.
2. It’s not easy to get bored
Baper or carrying that feeling means someone who when his friend has the slightest mistake but he is hurt and disappointed. Baper is very difficult to get a friend because they can not accept the mistakes of others.
It would be nice, if you want to be a friend then don’t be easily baper about something.
3. Don’t have a bad opinion
Many people are quick to think badly of their friends. People like that are very difficult to make friends. No one wants to be friends with people who are prejudiced.
Therefore, never keep bad prejudices on other people. Must always think positive. Bad prejudice only brings quarrels or strife. Bad prejudice only exacerbates the situation so we must avoid it.
4. Be a good place to vent
These last characteristics are very important because everyone has a problem and something that they want to tell and share with others in order to find a solution.
A good friend should be a good place to vent. This is to ensure friendship remains good and not destroyed. Most importantly, what was said was not revealed to others.
With these 4 (four) characteristics, hopefully they will help us become good friends. We can maintain that friendship properly and responsibly. Hope it helps us of course. That’s it.