Often we feel swayed and doubtful in making a choice. Afraid that the choices we make are not the best. From now on, you can make a good choice by doing the 3 steps below. It’s simple and you should try it.
1. Stable self condition
When we are going to make a decision, then stabilize yourself first. Emotional and physical must also be stable and healthy. Not in a state of urgency, anger, or depression. So, before you make a decision, pay attention to yourself first. A stable self condition is certainly very good. A cooler mind and not rushed or forced in making decisions. You must have thought long term before making this decision. Don’t make choices when you’re angry, okay? It can be fatal.
2. Being outdoors
The outside or open environment will also increase our understanding. The mind seems to become wider and wider. However, if we are in a closed room, our view will narrow, especially if we add a crowd, it makes our focus disturbed. An open environment also makes our minds open to see things from various sides, as well as a choice. So, before you make a decision, relax your mind first by taking a walk in the outside environment.
3. Asking for advice and opinions from others
If we are already so confused, it’s okay if you ask other people for advice and opinions. It could be that they have more experience and know more than you. Sharing your thoughts with those who understand your condition will make it easier for you to make the right choice. Especially if they are more mature and have more knowledge. Choose the right people to ask for their advice and opinions. Consider their advice even if it’s not quite what we want.
From now on, you no longer need to feel afraid and confused when choosing an option. Choose a decision according to conscience and also the right mind. Every choice has consequences and we must also be responsible for it.