Seeing friends who seem to be more successful, we feel left far behind. Actually it’s not a lag, but it’s just a different path. However, we do often feel left out simply because other people seem to be more successful. You need to know that there are 3 important reasons why we feel left behind from others.
1. Spend a lot of time looking at other people’s achievements
Seeing other people’s achievements can be both positive and negative, depending on how we choose. If the impact is positive, then we will become motivated and try not to just complain and feel we are inferior. The negative impact is that we feel inferior and think we are nothing. Don’t look at other people’s achievements too often. Just once in a while and make other people’s achievements an encouragement that we too can be like them. That’s what you have to do.
2. Constantly comparing
You must have often heard that comparing your life with other people is not the right thing. What’s the comparison if we just have a different path. You can compare as long as it is related to goodness. Compare yourself with those who can be better but also have the same abilities as you. If they can be successful with their business, so can you. Be grateful for what you have, not what you don’t have.
3. Don’t want to try
The next reason is about effort. If we only see other people are always better without us trying, that’s wrong. Once we see that other people also have achievements, we must also strive to achieve what we dream of. First, try and pray first. What the result will be, we can’t manage it. As long as we have tried well, even though our achievements are different from others, it does not mean that we are inferior to them.
So, if you still feel left out, one of the 3 reasons above you must be feeling. From now on, stop feeling yourself inferior. Other people have advantages, of course we have them too. You are valuable and do not deserve to be looked down upon by others.